Dear Ms. Netiquette,
I have come across some players conversing in a foreign language which makes me feel uncomfortable.
I assume they can play in their own country’s Pogo site. It appears to be German? I know there is nothing that can be done, I just don’t understand why they choose to communicate in a different language so others cannot know what they are talking about.
Thank you for considering my question.
Sprechens English, S’il Vous Plait
Dear Sprechens English, S’il Vous Plait, Your question is simple: why do people choose to communicate in a different language so that others cannot know what they are talking about? The answer is just as simple: because, for whatever reason, they do. Perhaps they don’t speak English and they do not know that there is a German site. Of perhaps they’re not speaking German. You don’t seem sure, so it’s quite possible they are speaking a language that you’ve mistaken for German. There are many, many reasons. Maybe they’re two students studying a foreign language and they’re getting their practice in. Who knows? If you don’t like to see it, go ahead and mute them. Some people fear that those who speak in foreign languages are talking about the other people in the room. That’s not likely the case, unless players are making a point of talking about how they’re talking in a different language. And even if they were, ultimately who cares? If two people you’ve never met in your life, and will likely never meet in real life, say something about you that you don’t understand, what does it really matter? Soon they’ll forget about it, and so should you. |
Dear Ms. Netiquette,
So, like everybody else, I have a question…
I was in a room recently and for some reason one of the folks decided that he/she was being harassed… nobody else in the room could understand this but he/she went on and on… they reported the supposed ‘harasser’ and left… I reported the initial reporter… okay… done deal.
But, this brings up a question … when one reports somebody, does that someone get notification of the report so that they know to clean up their act? Or does Pogo just log the report and not be proactive? Oh, and this initial reporter thought that if someone got three reports that they were banned from Pogo… true?
It’s so much easier to ask you than read all of the Pogo rules and regulations!
Thanks for the good weekly reports…
Using My Noodle
Dear Using My Noodle, If you are reported for a Terms of Service violation that actually did take place – ie: you did violate the TOS – then you will receive an e-mail warning which will include the offending text. If, however, you are reported and there is no Terms of Service violation, the report will be marked “non-actionable” (or something… I don’t know the exactly lingo), and nothing will be noted in your account, and you’ll never know that you’ve been reported. Furthermore, if you are reported in the future for a valid TOS violation, those erroneous reports will not play into the disciplinary action made by our Customer Support Representatives. People sometimes innocently report the wrong people or they mistakenly believe that someone has violated the TOS when they have not. As for getting three reports, if the reports are valid, you can lose your account. But each case is very different. For instance, if you engage in hate speech, you can lose your account the first time you’re reported. And if you’ve got a violation from 2002, one from 2006 and you get one this year, it’s possible the first or second report won’t be taken into consideration in the disciplinary decision made. |
Dear Ms. Netiquette,
On badge day, without fail, players will enter the room and type into chat “How do I play this game?” No “hi”, “hello”, or “kiss my grits”. This irks me to no end. What I find amazing is that other players will actually answer. Kudos to them for being kind but one big soggy tea bag to rudeness of the others.
What do you think, Nettie?
Read the How To Play, Eh?
Dear Read the How To Play, Eh?, I’m not sure if you’re more taken aback by their not taking the time to greet the room before asking the question, or if you are upset about those who would rather rely on the kindness of others rather than reading the How to Play instructions for themselves. If it’s the former, then they really should greet the room with a “hello” or “hi”. Maybe not “kiss my grits”, as most people do not have long enough lips to cross over many, many miles to actually complete that request. And, of course, they should also say “thank you”, “please” and the other niceties. If it’s the latter, frankly, I don’t think asking others for help in understanding a game a big deal. Some people learn better when they have someone helping them. They prefer to learn interactively. We’re all different, and since they seem to be having little difficulty finding willing teachers, why stress over it? You can always engage the Mute! |
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